How to Get Help When You are Completely Isolated and Alone

God's Ways & Means are Far Beyond Human Imagination

By: White Dove

Your enemy's first strategy is to isolate you. Smear campaigns, gaslighting, or even moving you to a remote location away from family and friends are predictable patterns of an abuser. 

Sometimes your friends and family are quite near, even in your home, but they don't really see you or comprehend that your heart is smashed to pieces by someone who appears to them as a great guy. 

That is how many people find themselves on my little webpage here, because they have no one else who understands they are dying inside. To feel all alone and misunderstood knocks the wind out of you. You feel like you've fallen on the battlefield and no one sees you need help. They blindly pass you by. 

Today I want to share with you how God has reached me in those dark, forgotten places of lost hope, even despair… the times when I was physically isolated and far away from any type of support. 

Help is always on the way and never far. Even if you don't have a counselor, pastor, or friend nearby who sees the deep anguish of sociopathic abuse God has ways of reaching you through the invisible realm of spirit… the Kingdom fo Heaven is "at hand" – Jesus' says.

In dreams and visions, which seem little more than the mind's imagination, both angels and people come alongside us to tenderly minister in ways far above ordinary ways and means.

I will share one such dream, out of many such dreams I've had. 

In the dream a chiropractor was giving me normal adjustments. He was actually a pastor who I trusted from years ago, who I genuinely trusted and respected. After the normal adjustments he sits down and has me lean my back against him. Gently he opens up a pocket in my back that is full of infection, draining it out of my body into a pan on the floor. It is then that I realize he is not just a chiropractor or minister, he is Heaven's messenger sent to heal me of a disease no human doctor could have helped to relieve… because of my isolation. 

After the procedure is done I rest – such a deep rest as I cannot remember having before. The rest is so profoundly peaceful and deep that when I wake up from the dream It feels like I'm a new person. 

In other dreams I have been laid out on the battlefield when a medic arrives to find nearly all the blood drained from my body. I'm hovering above my body, watching and listening. "She needs a blood transfusion!" shouts the medic. I wake up inside of my body feeling re-energized, hopeful, and able to make it through another day.

The battle you are facing is real, my friend. If left unattended you may find yourself battling diseases or even death. Face-to-face encounters with evil leave wounds. Our bodies and minds are not designed to host evil in any way, shape, or form. When you are married to a person who has been overtaken by evil you are daily being drained of life force. They are emotional vampires.

People wonder why we don't get out… most likely you know why. There are so many reasons we stay, including economic dependency, children, church, and enormous pressures that no one else sees. 

The right time will come when you are able to escape. But while you are enduring, in the midst of it, just know you are NEVER alone, ever… and that God has ways and means to help you that are far beyond human imagination.

God wants to be your hero. Trust Him to deliver you, one step at a time. 

I'm here for you, too, my friend… you are never alone! Help is on the way.

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With all my love,

White Dove

White Dove knows how it feels to lose everything: marriage and family, church and reputation, finances and businesses, and more. Her upcoming, interactive memoir, "On the Way Home," tells the story of how she came to be known as "the most abused woman" her counselors had yet met and how she is learning to navigate to freedom and fullness.  

Today White Dove helps people write their life stories, unearthing the treasures of their past and sowing them into their future, creating new family legacies.

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May July 24, 2018 at 7:30 am

Hello White Dove,

Thank you for all your inspirational, hope – full writing!

I will resume my situation telling that I have been, (together with my partner and one of my brothers, falsely accused, and harassed at court, with no effective defense at all. The legal harassment started nearly three years ago. Our hopeless defence has eaten almost all our financial resources. 

We have been warned that our siblings could easily attack us again. They behave as if they intended destroying us. 

Before that blew up and during the investigation, we have been harassed, and threatened at home. We had to leave with just a few items, because of feeling unsafe. I have been massively and extensively smeared in a covert way, but with unknowin people pointing at me, even insulting me.

I have been suggested by very few courageous people that I have been terribly defamed. I have been inscribed in "contacts pages" and worse, accused of stealing, being aggressive, and who knows what other things. 

I have been stalked and harassed, on the media and outdoors. I never suffered anything like this before, and don't know how to handle it. My own family have attacked me and forced my Mother  away from me. To do that they accused me of having kidnaped her. She is the only one who stood by me, (together with my partner and only one of my brothers). My mother had asked me to help her and protect her from her other children, but she never gave me any details on what was the problem. She only mentioned that she very much sensed that they were setting up a plot, particularly against me, but also against my brother. 

We are very worried about Mum, who was in perfect health when we were separated from her, a year ago. She is a wonderful old lady, too kind and too naïve. This has been used against her and against us, too. 

My partner is affected by all of this because he stood all the way by Mum, my brother and me.

The relationship between my partner, Nick, and me, has systematically been sabotaged by my family for years. My father started it all.

I am allowed to meet Mum now, but she has disappeared. The entire family have abandoned us.

I have been adviced to try to communicate through social media. I never did because I have suffered harassment since 2007. We have become very isolated and cannot easily trust anybody, because even friends of many years have been turned into stalkers and informers for our aggressive family. Trying to reach out, I signed in to Facebook, and very quickly received a very serious threat note making a reference to our family. I quickly closed the brand new account.

I think that the risk would be high if I have such an account again. Too many people have been turned agains us, in a very aggressive way.

My smartphone has been hacked, and I have strong doubts even about my computer. This has happenned to me before, during these years. 

Our siblings want to exclude my brother and me as children of our Mother, in every way.

We also contacted the police, but they don't seem to be able to do much. It is very difficult to get proves, whcih the police and the court need, because they have harassed and mistreated us covertly, throughout years, isolating us and empoverishing us to the maximum possible, keeping our Mother away from us most of the time. 

We are all mature now. The aggressiveness, the lies, the gaslighting, and the betrayal have become extreme. They are wealthy and powerful, and seem to have totally discarded us. 

Any advice would be welcome. I wonder whether I will receive your answer, since I tried to make other contacts before and they were sabotaged. 

I thank you so much for your patient attention, and your encouraging words, which I have partly been reading. I send you love and blessings,




Susan Schiller March 9, 2017 at 6:44 pm

I love how God speaks to us individually and corporately and I love His timing. Today Lana Vawser shared this in email:

I had a dream a few weeks ago and the Lord spoke to me that sleep is KEY right now! Since that dream I have seen sensing the Lord is doing a deep work in the hearts, souls and minds of His people as they sleep. He is reaching the deepest depths of hearts and souls with His love and bringing deep refreshing, healing and restoration. Many deep roots that have plagued, tormented and caused God’s people pain and anguish will be removed by His love as they go to bed at night and sleep! 


I had a vision where I saw Jesus working on the minds of His people like a brain surgeon while they were sleeping. He was removing trauma, healing past memories, and the Word of God that had been stored into their hearts and used to renew their minds during the day, I saw the Lord breathing upon as they slept and it brought freedom, clarity and mental ease and peace, rather than torment. Many were going to bed one night sick, waking up the next morning – HEALED! MIRACLES ARE HAPPENING IN THE NIGHT!!!! 


As the Lord was doing the deep works in the depths of His people as they slept, I saw chains breaking through the night. When they awoke in the morning, they felt so free, such joy, a great shift had taken place that filled them with the sense that “something changed overnight”. 


This is the season where things are LITERALLY CHANGING OVERNIGHT! Things you have been contending for and contending for to see them shift and break open, will be released OVERNIGHT! God is releasing OVERNIGHT MIRACLES! 

You can find Lana and the rest of this message at 


Susan Schiller March 8, 2017 at 11:40 am

Today I read a brief word from Joann Carpenter at that says so much about the fire of isolation:

Those who are walking through extreme fire in their own home, are taught to look to God only for comfort and a sanctuary to escape. It should not come as a surprise why many are facing this. Isn’t Jesus who said In Mark– “The only place a prophet isn’t honored is in his hometown, among his relatives, and in his own house”?

They, if yielded, will learn to rest on the breast of Christ, in true intimacy. Power and Authority is birthed from this place. Your true Identity will be birthed. You are being without a doubt & unequivocally, trained by the hand of God, to become a standard, of His non compromising Justice & Love. In a world that is rebellious, and undeserving of His mercy, we are a tool, perfectly fashioned for His hand. These are those who are made to shine the brightest.


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